I’m struggling with getting over an unrequited crush who’s taken (she lives far away, she has a boyfriend that I’m acquaintances with from college, and I’ve only met her once) . I’m afraid I’ll never meet anyone like her, I don’t know if meeting lookalikes is possible, and I wonder if a matchmaker would work. I’m just sad and want someone to be able to talk to me as I try to cry if my body functions allow me to.
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I think you are looking for r/TwoXChromosomes.
Move on buddy. Next!
You sound like a psycho, no offense intended.
You shouldn't cry because you can't have something. Especially another person. I personally think scarlet Johansson is the ideal woman and have crushed on her since day 1. I have never cried about it bud, because as much as I want to bang that woman, I know it will never happen
Okay. I read a little of your post history...can I ask you a personal question? Are you struggling with your sexuality? You talked about living under your parent's roof and can't express yourself as a femme guy...are you just idealizing this "relationship" because you know nothing will ever come of it? It's safe... If I'm right...life is so g.d. short you have to be happy and if you're not accepted for who you are by your family we accept you as you are...you're one of us pede.
Now, if I'm way off and wrong...you gotta check your reality. You met this girl once, for all you know she gets her period 3 times a month and would kill you in your sleep. You don't know her from Adam but you are romanticizing an entire relationship that never took place. Either way brother you need to be honest with yourself first then you need to start looking to meet someone.
Drop it, forget about her.
I had a crush from high school and always had her in the back of my mind...sometimes in front.
I finally hooked up with her when I was like 27 and dated her for like a month... and it was not worth it at all. I never think about her anymore.
Don't put women on a pedestal unless they deserve to be there.
Easiest way to get over someone is to get on top of someone else.
It's hard but you have to be realistic. You are pining for a woman you don't really know. And, she is with someone you know. How would you feel if the tables were turned? You'd be flattered, but think, "hey, he's my friend, he isn't going to move on my girl." Cry it out if you need to, bind Satan, who is behind this situation, suck it up and move on. You deserve better. If you are a Christian, rely on God to point you in the right direction. Honestly, you don't sound like you are ready for a relationship. Your feelings on on your sleeve. You like what you think she is, and I'm not saying she's not a great person, but she is not yours now. XOXO
She’s actually super lefty, but I don’t really understand how politics affects a relationship if kids are not involved. But apparently she wants kids and I absolutely OBJECT to that so she’s not the one.
Find someone who wants you too!