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posted ago by RenaissanceOfHope ago by RenaissanceOfHope +14 / -0

I’m struggling with getting over an unrequited crush who’s taken (she lives far away, she has a boyfriend that I’m acquaintances with from college, and I’ve only met her once) . I’m afraid I’ll never meet anyone like her, I don’t know if meeting lookalikes is possible, and I wonder if a matchmaker would work. I’m just sad and want someone to be able to talk to me as I try to cry if my body functions allow me to.

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ArkansasMaven 3 points ago +3 / -0

It's hard but you have to be realistic. You are pining for a woman you don't really know. And, she is with someone you know. How would you feel if the tables were turned? You'd be flattered, but think, "hey, he's my friend, he isn't going to move on my girl." Cry it out if you need to, bind Satan, who is behind this situation, suck it up and move on. You deserve better. If you are a Christian, rely on God to point you in the right direction. Honestly, you don't sound like you are ready for a relationship. Your feelings on on your sleeve. You like what you think she is, and I'm not saying she's not a great person, but she is not yours now. XOXO