Long story. So bear with me but I think it's interesting.
I'm from Australia. So who the fuck cares about US politics right?
Well back in 2016 the media had me. I was a headline reader and would commonly say to people the likes of "Imagine if Trump wins! How fucked would the world be".
One day a guy from work sort of red pilled me in a weird way... He was a Pakistani and he told me "Who cares... We're not from the US. And they deserve it". It made me laugh (sorry pedes).
Now obviously he had an axe to grind from a Pakistani point of view but he sort of burst my bubble. Why the fuck would I care or stress being from Australia about Trump being president. I never cared before. That's when I realised the media had fucked me.
Anyway a couple of months later some barrister friend (had been having dinner once a week every week for several years) started ranting to me at dinner about Trump being president ending the world. I thought I could maybe help him and calm him down. Try and make him see that it doesn't matter that much. Long story short... We have never caught up socially since then. I've got lots of friends. And he was sort of a "single" friend and I'd just met my wife so while I was disappointed... It didn't stress me too much but it was an eye opener.
Anyway started becoming a Trump fan. Bet on him winning. He won but I learned for years to just shut up about it because people still really hate him here. And basically buy into the fact that anyone who likes him (or even doesn't hate him) is a racist degenerate.
Earlier this year lost another friend. Called her up during Covid to make sure she was alright because she is at high risk (cancer survivor). She started ranting about how fucking stupid Trump was. I backed off and was like "yeah he's got a hard job and who knows what the right decision is" and tried to be non chalant. She basically pushed me until she called me a "fucking idiot" and I told her that I'm not here to listen to her bullshit and to fuck off. She was a little bit of a "pity" friend of mine so was happy to fuck her off at this point.
Anyway feel I almost lost another friend lately. He's a good one who I don't want to lose.
Hes a smart guy. Professional, very educated and wealthy. He HATES Trump. But basically acts like he doesn't care.
So he'll send me "Trump is shit" articles or videos and then when I argue back he's like... "Ah I don't really care". But you know he does. At one point I basically confronted him about his attitude and said that his attitude was confrontational but it's not worth ruining our friendship. He backed down and apologised but I can tell he still HATES Trump and a part of that hates projects onto me.
It's crazy that the media machine is so powerful. That people in Australia lose friends over it.
Imagine being in the US and losing a friend over who the Prime Minister of Germany is.
Same. Rarely ever watch tv or netflix or any movies, and I haven't for years. I really can't stand actors, and I'm rarely convinced or entertained by people 'playing pretend' on TV. I should say that I do have several older TV series that I enjoy to re-watch, like The Office, Trailer Park Boys and Arrested Development, but I always struggle to get into new shows. This can be hard when I'm dating girls, since watching shows or movies is a common way for couples to spend time together, but I'm usually overcritical and it kills the mood, so I usually shut my mouth or recommend something else to do.
I only watch NBA and UFC, and the people I follow and support on Youtube. I've pretty much given up watching NBA after being a hardcore fan and a competitive player for more than a decade. It's unbearable to watch the NBA now, and I've lost so much respect for so many of these athletes that I looked up to, as a lifelong athlete. At least my respect for these NBA athletes is being replaced by UFC fighters, of whom I've pretty much obsessed over for the last 5 years.
It's much easier to identify and break free from the mainstream narrative when you aren't constantly consuming it. All of my friends consume a ton of Netflix and Hollywood movies, and they are all increasingly moving further left. This is up in Canada btw.
Interesting.
I heard Joey Diaz, of all people, talking about doing small acting roles in Hollywood productions. Was a real eye opener - he implied that a lot of the time the big actors don’t rehearse from a script, they mostly improvise! That made a lot of sense to me as I feel like I’m the only one yelling at the screen ‘What is this garbage?!’
How many of the really top actors can just improvise their way through a movie? Surely you’d need decent script writing as the basis for a solid story?