Well boys it finally happened - my gf and I had vastly different political views but i thought it was working. We just didn't talk about politics. Until it turned out she was watching msm and was becoming emotionally stressed out about a bunch of TDS fake news and resulted in claiming I have tacit support for white supremacy since I voted for Trump. So yea, slept on it and we're breaking up tonight when I get off work.
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Hey man, I know I'm just some stranger on the internet but take it from me, this will be one of the best decisions of your life. I was in a similar situation not too long ago with my ex. Things were going fine, I thought it was working well enough but was keeping tabs on some red flags which I had to decide if they were big enough to warrant ending the relationship. We didn't have vastly different views but they were different enough in very key areas for me and I didn't like that at all. So I put off doing it for 6 months, until I finally came around to doing it and just committed to it without looking back and let me tell you, I really should've done it 6 months earlier or even more. I am so much better off now and see things so much more clearly. Trust me, it may seem like a big thing to do, and it is, but you'll be so glad you did it once it's done because otherwise you'll never do it and it just gets worse. Happy to talk or answer any questions if you want to ask me any! You can do it fellow pede, just keep telling yourself it's the right decision and act upon that and work on moving forward.
thanks brother. I know its the right decision but those are often the toughest to make. Lots more red flags than this and you're right, just ignored it for too long. Thanks again.
No worries! Trust me, it's going to be tough. We were together 2 and a half years. I built myself up to doing it and thought I'd keep my cool but just burst into tears as soon as I approached her about it. 3 days later, it was like I was never in the relationship at all. When it's the right decision, it's the best thing in the world. Only you will know that, but if it was anything like my situation, which it sounds like it is in a way, then you're going to be sooooo much better off for it. Don't worry about how tough it will be. It's always tough. It's meant to be tough. The key thing is to remember why you're doing it and how you're going to bounce back after making the call. You've got this!
I know that's exactly how its going to go. I cried last night when she was going on about it... it should have happened right then and there.
Best method to get over her is when you are sad, focus on ALL the bad parts about her. Then think about the type of girl you want in the future.