Hang out with anybody at all who shares your opinions, including other men and old people. As soon as reasonable, state plainly, into the air, that you wish you could find a nice woman and you are looking around. Let them chew on that. A minute later, say, "Do you know anybody for me?"

They all have unmarried sisters and nieces. Oh yes. They do.

Then if the description pleases you, and ask if the woman thinks like her relative, meet the woman just for coffee and cake, in a quite nice place that business people go for working lunches. Go at 10:30 am. No dinners or candlelight. That is celebratory, not exploratory.

Hang out with anybody at all who shares your opinions, including other men and old people. As soon as reasonable, state plainly, into the air, that you wish you could find a nice woman and you are looking around. Let them chew on that. A minute later, say, "Do you know anybody for me?"

They all have unmarried sisters and nieces. Oh yes. They do.

Then if the description pleases you, meet the woman just for coffee and cake, in a quite nice place that business people go for working lunches. Go at 10:30 am. No dinners or candlelight. That is celebratory, not exploratory.