Find some pictures from the aftermath. China's sons did not refuse the order. Part of the reason that this went down the memory hole is the thousands of people involved were promptly slaughtered

I think you "may be" mistaken. (?)
Tiananmen protests began in April of 89 and people were killed.
"Tank Man" was in June of 89 and led to talkdowns by public on military.

Can you send link to video or story that proves otherwise? ( I sincerely seek to learn )

Find some pictures from the aftermath. China's sons did not refuse the order. Part of the reason that this went down the memory hole is the thousands of people involved were promptly slaughtered

Same event?
Can you send link to video? ( I sincerely seek to learn )