yes, I'm disappointed. But I also realize I did the best I could to impart wisdom to them both, I've always given them advice when they asked and at this stage in their lives I can only sit back and let them learn from their mistakes, just as I did as a young adult. I cannot force them to see things my way. When they were young someone asked me what I wanted for them as they grew up and their father and I reared them. I said I want them to grow up to be strong, independent young women that are good, upstanding citizens. If they are that (and so far they are-they haven't gotten into any trouble with the law, they both work and pay their own bills, they are good hearted and one of them is kind hearted as people can be) I'm happy. Anything else is gravy.

yes, I'm disappointed. But I also realize I did the best I could to impart wisdom to them both, I've always given them advice when they asked and at this stage in their lives I can only sit back and let them learn from their mistakes, just as I did as a young adult. I cannot force them to see things my way. When they were young someone asked me what I wanted for them as they grew up and their father and I reared them. I said I want them to grow up to be strong, independent young woman that are good, upstanding citizens. If they are that (and so far they are-they haven't gotten into any trouble with the law, they both work and pay their own bills, they are good hearted and one of them is kind hearted as people can be) I'm happy. Anything else is gravy.

yes, I'm disappointed. But I also realize I did the best I could to impart wisdom to them both, I've always gave them advice when they asked and at this stage in their lives I can only sit back and let them learn from their mistakes, just as I did as a young adult. I cannot force them to see things my way.

When they were young someone asked me what I wanted for them as they grew up and their father and I reared them. I said I want them to grow up to be strong, independent young woman that are good, upstanding citizens.

If they are that (and so far they are-they haven't gotten into any trouble with the law, they both work and pay their own bills, they are good hearted and one of them is kind hearted as people can be) I'm happy. Anything else is gravy.