Don’t confuse forgiveness with reconciliation. While we may forgive forgive and forgive generously, so that we do not seek “the count of Monte Cristo”-style hatred in our hearts, we do not necessarily need to reconcile with those who abused us in various ways e.g. invite them to your wedding etc,

Don’t confuse forgiveness with reconciliation. While we may forgive forgive and forgive generously, so that we do not seek monte cristi style hatred in our hearts, we do not necessarily need to reconcile with those who abused us in various ways e.g. invite them to your wedding etc,