This is what you say to her. "You got the vaccine without telling me because you knew I wouldn't approve but yet you did it anyway. I don't know how I can trust you anymore if my thoughts on something this serious that could impact both of us means so little to you. What you did was entirely disrespectful. I just need some time alone to think about this."

Then just don't talk to her for a while. If you forgive her, tell her if she ever does something like that again you will leave her and demand she apologize for her actions at the very least and understand why what she did was wrong. If she refuses to then leave her.

In actuality you should break up with her but no woman, especially western women, are perfect. Understand though that what this means is that she can easily be led astray by outside influences. In 5 years she could become a raging feminist and completely disrespect you. She has very little regard for you and is more submissive to the State than she is you. That's a huge problem.

This is what you say to her. "You got the vaccine without telling me because you knew I wouldn't approve but yet you did it anyway. I don't know how I can trust you anymore if my thoughts on something this serious that could impact both of us means so little to you. What you did was entirely disrespectful. I just need some time alone to think about this."

Then just don't talk to her for a while. In you forgive her, tell her if she ever does something like that again you will leave her and demand she apologize for her actions at the very least and understand why what she did was wrong. If she refuses to then leave her.

I'm actuality you should break up with her but no woman, especially western women, are perfect. Understand though that what this means is that she can easily be led astray for outside influences. In 5 years she could become a raging feminist and completely disrespect you. She has very little regard for you and is more submissive to the State than she is you. That's a huge problem.