I'm only able to skim at the moment, but it does paint a pretty detailed picture of why some men force themselves into feminine gender stereotypes. In some sort of crazy dimension maybe I could have turned out that way, I was a ridiculously skinny kid, but I always knew I was a man, and not gay. From everything I read so far it seems like he connected being gay to being skinny and effeminate.

I'm only able to skim at the moment, but it does paint a pretty detailed picture of why some men force themselves into feminine gender stereotypes, and some sort of crazy dimension maybe I could have turned out that way, I was a ridiculously skinny kid, but I always knew I was a man, and not gay. From everything I read so far it seems like he connected being gay to being skinny and effeminate.