Being a single mother sucks, and it's a lot of work and should earn its praise. I am very happy atleast someone takes care of the kids.

That said, at the foundation lies lack of character judgement or atleast a lack of judgement of the situation, a mistake somewhere has been made. Which is fine because we continuously make mistakes, that's life. Two persons made a bad judgment, of choosing each other while it didn't fit for whatever reason. This includes the mother. The accountability for this lack of judgement of the father character might marginal, but it was a lack of judgement given her situation.

And to often a bigger degree the father is to blame, because he also lacked character and should take responsibility and care for the kid, as it's his offspring.

Both parents are to some degree at fault. That doesn't mean the single mom should be an outcast or looked down upon, again she also deserves praise and help if needed. But it should not be ignored that she to some degree made a mistake. A mistake of choosing her partner.

Being a single mother sucks, and it's a lot of work and should earn its praise. I am very happy atleast someone takes care of the kids.

That said, at the foundation lies lack of character judgement or atleast a lack of judgement of the situation, a mistake somewhere has been made. Which is fine because we continuously make mistakes, that's life. Two persons made a bad judgment, of choosing each other while it didn't fit for whatever reason. This includes the mother. The accountability for this lack of judge of the father character might marginal, but it was a lack of good judgement given her situation.

And to often a bigger degree the father is to blame, because he also lacked character and should take responsibility and care for the kid, as it's his offspring.

Both parents are to some degree at fault. That doesn't mean the single mom should be an outcast or looked down upon, again she also deserves praise and help if needed. But it should not be ignored that she to some degree made a mistake. A mistake of choosing her partner.