I have to disagree here.

A very long time ago, I met a European young man in college. We had a whirlwind romance that ended abruptly when my American values regarding the necessity of marriage did not mesh with his European attitudes toward sex.

At the time, he walked away from the relationship with the remark that he would return when he felt he'd experienced enough of what the world has to offer. Loosely translated, he meant sampling other women -- but not to worry -- I was given permisson to do as I pleased until his return.

I was properly horrified any young American girl who has grown up reading romance novels would be. This was unlike any plot of any book I'd ever read. My broken heart took years to heal. I finally met a young American man whose values were identical to mine, and we planned our wedding.

As a soon to be bride, I had deposits down on everything and my wedding gown (which I was sewing myself) already in progress --when the phone rang eight months prior to my wedding day.

I was in complete shock to discover the European young man on the other end back, as per what he considered our "agreement". He had sampled enough of what the world had to offer to the tune of 31 (rather like Bressler's ice cream flavors I thought, when he told me this) and now he felt ready to settle down and procreate. I was the lucky lady chosen for the job.

I told him I was getting married to someone else. I never told him that the thought of 31 previous partners revolted me and that if he were literally the last man on earth -- I would choose to die a virgin rather than be with him. And also, that his offer was insulting years ago and even more insulting when I realized he thought i had agreed to it.

So I know more about European men than I care to know, both from him, and others I've come across in my life. They are very immoral when it comes to sex. They are so different that any American girl who takes up with one will probably end up with a broken heart.

As I've often advised young girls -- the charming accents are not worth the trouble of having a man that can't be loyal to you. American men are far more likely to have fidelity in their heart.

It has nothing to do with Marxism. It has to do with a piggish attitude and a genuine belief that wives are for breeding and the rest of the women in the world are there for their personal fun and games.

Furthermore -- please don't tell me (of my experience) "it's just one person" -- I've lived long enough to help glue together the pieces of many girls who fell for the accents. Some don't get out of the relationship until it's too late and suffer though tremendous infidelity for the sake of their children.

Marry AMERICAN.

I have to disagree here.

A very long time ago, I met a European young man in college. We had a whirlwind romance that ended abruptly when my American values regarding the necessity of marriage did not mesh with his European attitudes toward sex.

At the time, he walked away from the relationship with the remark that he would return when he felt he'd experienced enough of what the world has to offer. Loosely translated, he meant sampling other women -- but not to worry -- I was given permisson to do as I pleased until his return.

I was properly horrified any young American girl who has grown up reading romance novels would be. This was unlike any plot of any book I'd ever read. My broken heart took years to heal. I finally met a young American man whose values were identical to mine, and we planned our wedding.

As a soon to be bride, I had deposits down on everything and my wedding gown (which I was sewing myself) already in progress --when the phone rang eight months prior to my wedding day.

I was in complete shock to discover the European young man on the other end back, as per what he considered our "agreement". He had sampled enough of what the world had to offer to the tune of 31 (rather like Bressler's ice cream flavors I thought, when he told me this) and now he felt ready to settle down and procreate. I was the lucky lady chosen for the job.

I told him I was getting married to someone else. I never told him that the thought of 31 previous partners revolted me and that if he were literally the last man on earth -- I would choose to die a virgin rather than be with him. And also, that his offer was insulting years ago and even more insulting when I realized he thought i had agreed to it.

So I know more about European men than I care to know, both from him, and others I've come across in my life. They are very immoral when it comes to sex. They are so different that any American girl who takes up with one will end up will probably end up with a broken heart.

As I've often advised young girls -- the charming accents are not worth the trouble of having a man that can't be loyal to you. American men are far more likely to have fidelity in their heart.

It has nothing to do with Marxism. It has to do with a piggish attitude and a genuine belief that wives are for breeding and the rest of the women in the world are there for their personal fun and games.

Furthermore -- please don't tell me (of my experience) "it's just one person" -- I've lived long enough to help glue together the pieces of many girls who fell for the accents. Some don't get out of the relationship until it's too late and suffer though tremendous infidelity for the sake of their children.

Marry AMERICAN.