Here's the thing from the perspective of us guys. Why did you have a kid with this guy in the first place? Was he hot, had some pretty tattoos? Yeah, I'm being slightly patronizing and I'm sure you'll say that's not it but western women keep selecting mates based on sex (lust/passion), money and power rather than moral character and that's a huge problem.

Then after the breakup and going the single mother route, it's game over for you to marry a good guy because your past experience hardens your personality in a way that makes you undesirable, not to mention another man's kids. This is despite the fact that your child does need a father figure. 90% of the problems with children could be correlated with lack of a masculine father figure.

You can play the I'm the exception card all you want but I've seen it many times before with single mothers and it has rarely been good with the good ones I've met finding new men quickly after realizing the mistakes they made (usually sacrificing the man's looks to find a good guy who'll accept her with another man's kid due to how good looking she is relative to him) to correct for them. Single mothers that play the I'm an independent woman card to raise their kid after sluting it up with some asshole are the worst.

Here's the thing from the perspective of us guys. Why did you have a kid with this guy in the first place? Was he hot, had some pretty tattoos? Yeah, I'm being slightly patronizing and I'm sure you'll say that's not it but western women keep selecting mates based on sex (lust/passion), money and power rather than moral character and that's a huge problem.

Then after the breakup and going the single mother route, it's game over for you to marry a good guy because your past experience hardens your personality in a way that makes you undesirable, not to mention another man's kids. This is despite the fact that your child does need a father figure. 90% of the problems with children could be correlated with lack of a masculine father figure.

You can play the I'm the exception card all you want but I've seen it many times before with single mothers and it has rarely been good with the good ones I've met finding new men quickly after realizing the mistakes they made (usually sacrificing the man's looks to find a good guy who'll accept her with another man's kid due to how good looking she is relative to him) to correct for them. Single mothers that play the I'm an independent woman cars to raise their kid after sluting it up with some asshole are the worst.

Here's the thing from the perspective of us guys. Why did you have a kid with this guy in the first place? Was he hot, had some pretty tattoos? Yeah, I'm being slightly patronizing and I'm sure you'll say that's not it but western women keep selecting mates based on sex (lust/passion), money and power rather than moral character and that's a huge problem.

Then after the breakup and going the single mother route, it's game over for you to marry a good guy because your past experience hardens your personality in a way that makes you undesirable, not to mention another man's kids. This is despite the fact that your child does need a father figure. 90% of the problems with children could be correlated with lack of a masculine father figure.

You can play the I'm the exception card all you want but I've seen it many times before with single mothers and it has rarely been good with the good ones I've met finding new men quickly after realizing the mistakes they made to correct for them. Single mothers that play the I'm an independent woman cars to raise their kid after sluting it up with some asshole are the worst.