"disadvantage oneself through a wilful attempt to gain an advantage or assert oneself."

It's called strategy, if you don't figure out a strategy, you are going to have a hard time in the future. Sometimes you have to make hard choices in the present, to make it easier in the future and life doesn't reward a gung ho mentality.

"disadvantage oneself through a wilful attempt to gain an advantage or assert oneself." It's called strategy, if you don't figure out a strategy, you are going to have a hard time in the future. Sometimes you have to make hard choices in the present, to make it easier in the future and life doesn't reward a hung up mentality.