The line there is drawn between person-person charity and government action. The reason free societies can work is because they're supported by a strong civil society in which people do actually help each other out - without the state getting involved.
It's not about directing people's bedsharing arrangements. In the actual world, the collapse of an institution like lifelong marriage has real social consequences, like damage to private family life and the removal of a barrier between the state and influence over children - a barrier that keeps free societies free. You see the consequences across the West.
It's always existed but until recently monogamous lifelong marriage was the norm, which upheld the married family as the main institution for passing on culture, values and knowledge to the next generation. That's collapsing because divorce is no longer seen as a failure and it's considered normal to have multiple spouses over the course of a lifetime. Divorce should be available, but in a healthy society it should be the exception not the norm.
Money argued that media response to the exposé was due to right-wing media bias and "the antifeminist movement." He said his detractors believed "masculinity and femininity are built into the genes so women should get back to the mattress and the kitchen".
Of course he did.
"If I were to see the case of a boy aged ten or eleven who's intensely erotically attracted toward a man in his twenties or thirties, if the relationship is totally mutual, and the bonding is genuinely totally mutual ... then I would not call it pathological in any way."
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The latest figure we have is 12.4% from the 2011 census. We'll see how much it's grown when the census figures are published next year.