Easy to blame fathers when the mother can and does frequently use lawfare to remove fathers from their kids lives and undermine his influence with the full support of the courts and cuckservatives white knighting for that stunning and brave single mother...
I'm sorry you're lonely, I'm in a similar situation and I know the feeling. However being a christian I think it is important to fight against the notion that we deserve happiness. What we deserve isn't happiness it is hellfire. Jesus gave us what we didn't deserve, and that is salvation through him. His desire for our life isn't that we are happy, it is that we are holy. Concentrate on being holy and living your life according to the bible and how God commanded us to live, and if god puts someone in your life still concentrate on his word and his instructions. I've seen far too many people pursue happiness over holiness and in the end they end up neither happy nor holy.
Met both my ex wives at church, both very religious. One was a virgin. Both ended up cheating. Both decided that god (little g because their only god is their own ego) wanted them to be haaaapy and to fuck some random dudes who would go on to abuse them.
Find them at Church is a load of crap. My story isn't unique. Feminism is most church's god now.
Nope, red county. TN is a very red state https://www.politico.com/2016-election/results/map/president/tennessee/
can confirm, my dad raised 3 boys. All 3 of us don't drink, don't do drugs, don't smoke. All 3 either have or will have in another year multiple college degrees. He put all 3 of us through college and provided for all of us with no child support or much interaction from our mother. He had no college degree and himself came from a family of migrant workers. He worked his way up to a 6 figure salary in a company despite a learning disability and always putting us kids first before anything else.
but I'm sure that is just his male privilege that enabled all that...
Just remember this, we beat those fucking commies once already, and we will fucking do it again. And we'll beat the Globalists, Jehadis, Satanists, Pedos and any other of these evil bastards that crawl out of their shitholes.
The black pill of despair is what they want to shove down your throat. They want you to give up and think it is hopeless. They want you to think they have already won, that nothing you do matters, and that what you fight for is already lost.
Well fuck that and fuck them. You see what lies they have been feeding you and you know what is at stake. So never let despair take you over, burn that shit out with the white hot anger that you should have at these people who are trying to take everything from us.
Red pilled is seeing and accepting reality for what it actually is, not what you want or pretend it to be.
Woke is the exact opposite. It is you saying the reality can go fuck itself because what you want to believe or fear is actually correct.
My ex-wife had something similar happen. It wasn't exactly like a light switch but she went from being a loving and respectful person to treating me like garbage and trying to fake a domestic violence charge to get the police to force me out of the house and remove me from our daughters life. Luckily she made a mistake and I found out about it before hand was able to protect myself (She ended up getting herself arrested).
Maybe read that verse again
1 Timothy 2
13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 15 But women will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.
So blame your piece of shit local government which your local community is responsible for electing most directly for not asking for help, then blame your state government for not sending in the national guard or asking the feds for help.
I agree that it can apply to both genders but it is often used as a bludgeon because stated other ways many of these things are just healthy boundaries.
My ex: He doesn't want me to go out with my friends or wear nice clothes. Me: I don't think it is appropriate for you to be out all night long drinking with people (Hi Ed) I don't know without me especially while being dressed like a hooker.
My ex: He is trying to see what I text to other people. Me: I looked at the phone bill one month and noticed over 1K texts on it. All from my ex number to a number I didn't know (Hi Keith).
My ex: He won't let me have any money. Me: She was disappearing 40% of my take home pay every month with nothing to show for it. (Hi High Priced Liquor store)
My ex: He says I'm acting crazy and he has turned my whole family against me. Me: Her whole family and I were trying very hard to get her to see the destructive path she was heading down.
Who is abused and who is the abuser? Depends on who you ask...