Edit: ha, sorry I didn't see they said they DON'T want to exchange gifts. For some reason I thought you were saying they just didn't want to meet in person. Sorry!
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Easy peasy, then you're not only giving them higher quality versions of things they already have and use, you also get to support your fellow Americans.
Cheers!
I say any one of these fuckers, business, etc, they have any DEFUND THE POLICE signs in their window, throw a brick thru it and wait for them to come to the broken window and say "so, ah, who are you gonna call dipshit?"
Welp any FUCKING day now....only 30 more days to do FUCK ALL about it huh? No rush guys.