I've been meaning to read the Federalist papers for sometime now, I just want to give it the time it deserves. Being self employed time is hard to come by, I wonder if audio book would be an option.
I do however freaking love ancient history, so much of or society stems from the Romans and they pretty much copied the Greeks. Our young people should be taught more of this but when i went to school many moons ago it was hardly mentioned.
I try to keep a level head around here and not let the vitriol get out of hand but this.. this really makes me angry. These are kids with their entire life ahead of them being targeted and killed by fanatics.
I'm convinced nothing will stop these literal terrorist except force. They are at the point that only blunt force ill stop them. They are killing our kids for fuck sake!
Reading stories about the French troops that Napoleon commanded are truly amazing. So many battles won by pure grit and determination. A lot of them probably got killed because of their massive balls weighing them down as they ran into cannon and musket fire. Also France was the first major power recognize America as a sovereign nation.
If she is the one pushing for the divorce its going to be hard to rectify the situation. Only you know if that point of no return has been reached and if so then all effort on your part will be like trying to drain the ocean with a spoon.
I've been a part of a relationship where i tried to move heaven and earth to make it work when i knew things were getting rough and it was all for not. When someone is unhappy in a relationship its like a festering wound where dramatic action needs to be taken to try and rid the infection. Not all relationship on rocky grounds end in separation and there is always hope. Talking out the problem might be the best way, get it all out in the open, how you feel and your fears, what you want in relationship and what needs to be worked on.
Don't be dismayed and pick your battle and fight for your wife, or if that line in the sand has been crossed do what you must to heal and cut your losses to a minimum.
I'll pray for you pede and for strength in your time of need.