I think he meant that your wife doesn’t like Dan’s message because of his voice which is comparable to people not liking/voting for Trump because they think he’s a meanie.
If that’s true then you need to have a serious talk with your wife about forming opinions based on emotion rather than facts of the message. It’s very dangerous - case in point, look at where we are now because of emotionally driven voting.
Wow, nice comeback. You sound like you're ten. And you sound like a leftist because apparently you can only counter with emotionally-driven ad hominem leftist buzzword insults instead of actually debating the issue itself with facts.
Clean up your act, dude.
And if that doesn’t work, step 3 is...well, you know what step 3 is.