Overall the education system is in decline and now in free-fall, the media is destroyed (minus small media). Seems too many people want a 5 second info blurb as their news, like the attention span for any subject is very brief.
Not sure, but read up on Dr Mollie James in Missouri:
https://citizenfreepress.com/breaking/icu-doctor-speaks-out-i-was-fired-for-refusing-the-vaccine-and-prescribing-ivermectin/
She should accept your decision, just as you should accept her decision. Your relationship should be based on trust, commitment to each other. She may need your support having gotten the shot, for undesired adverse reactions (God forbid). Hopefully you both keep your health with divergent jab choices. If someone is not committed to you, a jab disagreement would seem to be an unfortunate symptom of that. Wish you guys well, hope it works out.
this should cheer you up:
https://patriots.win/p/13zzHow1Pr/based-highschoolers-hopefully-no/c/