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ToddHarsh -3 points ago +1 / -4

You are mistaken on a great many things.

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ToddHarsh 2 points ago +2 / -0

Great point. Reminds me of the Lenin statue on "private property" in Seattle. It comes down to education. People can be educated / conditioned / brainwashed into hating good people and loving bad people.

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ToddHarsh 1 point ago +2 / -1

As a psychologist, I suggest talking to a therapist about ASPD. Your willingness to disregard others to pander to your own amusement is a pathological behavior pattern.

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ToddHarsh 3 points ago +3 / -0

What’s the purpose of your comment?

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ToddHarsh 4 points ago +4 / -0

Yeah, and his name wasn’t mentioned in any of my history books. People’s concerns about abuse are rarely genuine. It’s all about being primed, conditioned, and molded into feeling one way or another towards certain people & events. So, whenever you see people passionate about atrocities - think climate change, racism, child abuse - It’s probably not because they really care but rather because they’ve been convinced to feel like they should.

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ToddHarsh 1 point ago +2 / -1

Right, and it’s the history that does the negative charging. Notice how Hitler is condemned so often in the school system, yet FDR’s camps are rarely if ever mentioned. Surely, American historians may push a negative Xi narrative, but why are you so certain? Had Hitler not invaded Poland, I wonder if many people would hate him today. Our history books may not have focused on him nearly as much.

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ToddHarsh -1 points ago +1 / -2

Based on the above reply, you didn’t even read my post. You are no better than a leftist. Take care of your health and show these messages to a counselor. You are not well, and this website does not benefit from your presence. Come back when you have confidence. Of course, you won’t get help. I’m wrong. You are right. I’m just a retard who should commit suicide in your eyes. I know. Some day, maybe you’ll grow up and learn how to be a man.

Also, since I actually care, unlike you, I’ll offer one more bit of insight. How you think affects how you feel. Your negative story about the country being “in decline” causes your body to produce more cortisol, increasing internal stress and wear & tear. You don’t have any evidence that the country is in decline. Many argue that we are actually improving thanks to the momentum provided by Trump.

It’s all about your attitude. If you continue down this road with the current attitude, there’s a realistic chance you will end up in prison or committing suicide. We both know your life isn’t going the way you want it to. You don’t have a girlfriend who loves you, and your family life is strained. The result of you being right is a lack of life satisfaction.

Also, dehumanizing me into a body part is another symptom of ASPD. You might want to try learning mindfulness, the practice of monitoring your thoughts without judgment or reaction. When you start to identify your thoughts as positive or negative, and you begin to eliminate the negative ones, you will begin to feel better, and your relationships will improve.

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ToddHarsh 0 points ago +1 / -1

“But your view is obscured by your ill-gotten spot high atop the Moral High Ground.“

Morality has nothing to do with harm nor anything I’m talking about.

“Also, you're glowing like Tritium. That Soro$-funded training was all for naught.” Not only are you engaging in ASPD, but now you’re displaying Paranoid Personality Disorder (PPD). Uninstall conspiracytheorizing.exe from your brain. You weren’t born with it. You let someone else install it in to you like a virus.

“Your smug busybody compulsion to order others around and tell them what and how to think”

First of all, this entire website and any group that wants social change understandably engages in compulsive ordering. Look at the in-group think on this site or for leftists on /r/politics. It’s all about trying to tell people how and what to think. With that said, I agree that ordering people around is harmful. Unless it’s in a team setting with a leader giving orders, then it’s just narcissistic personality disorder. Since I don’t allow myself to behave like a narcissist, my purpose is not to order you around nor to tell you how or what to think. I am sharing my perspective, and I am not invested in any of you changing your thinking or behavior. Life is perfect just the way it is.

However, as a fellow patriot, when I see other patriots engaging in self harm as well as harm toward others, I often feel motivated to speak up. I won’t do myself a disservice and withhold my honest thoughts just because insecure, poorly raised people like yourself don’t have the communication skills nor confidence to respond maturely (without harm).

“ your so-called "expertise on the workings of the human mind" is fatally biased by Leftist propaganda indoctrination, and completely out-of touch and/or opposed to the well-being of Flyover State Traditional Americans.”

I rarely accuse anyone of being a troll, but there’s something suspicious about you disparagingly stereotyping patriots as “flyover state Americans”. My philosophy is not leftist - it is human. Observable disordered behavior can be seen by anyone with a trained eye. Many if not most leftists are disordered too. Look at school teachers, all of the people who rioted last year, and all of the people who censor in order to control. It’s all forms of behavior disorders stemming from insecurity.

“Normal people loathe your kind”

I won’t speak on normality. Plenty of people disagree with traditional psychologists, including me. However, loathing anyone is a toxic behavior pattern. Uninstall loathing.exe from your system. Leftists use loathing to their advantage as a way of manipulating their enemy and appeasing their core pain. Why be like a leftist? See how you willingly chose to pander to harmful behavior? Why would you loathe anyone? I’ll tell you why: insecurity & lack of empathy. If you had sufficient empathy, you would quickly become aware of the stress that comes with loathing, and you would stop. Also, if you were confident, you would choose a healthier behavior because you would care about your well-being. ‘“psychologists" are complicit in many of the ills that plague our society. Coddling of the sexually-confused and failure-prone (along with demands for normal people to coddle along) has decimated our ability to function properly as a society because your kind helped "empower" the lunatics into running the asylum.’

If you could, would you order those “psychologists” to change how they think & behave? I agree that the majority of psychologists do more harm to society than good. Hence why I refuse to comply with the APA on most matters. However, they are correct about some conditions such as disordered behavior patterns and schizophrenia.

“psychologists let the minions of the Leftist Agenda bully them into rewriting the DSM to pander to their whims.”

You know the psychologists you’re referring to are leftists, yea? People either have a cervix or a prostate. Gender confusion is a major psychological issue today because many schools, psychologists, and the media foster cognitive dissonance. These bad actors do not discredit the potential value of schools, psychology, and journalism.

“Also, I'm sorry you don't get humor.” As a standup comedian in my night life, I accept your apology (even though it’s just a veiled insult). If you were healthy, you wouldn’t have placed the blame on me for failing to get the humor. Then again, if you didn’t have a Cluster B disorder, we wouldn’t be having this discussion in the first place.

“ I should apologize for my tone: I should have asked more nicely, so that you would have realized my request was sincere.”

Well, are you going to apologize? The above is not an apology. You’re just saying you should. Either way, I don’t need an apology. Apologize to yourself. You’re the one spewing vitriol, further distorting your world view.

‘My hopes were quite high that I would be reading a news item about a "psychologist" wearing womens' clothing found splattered on the sidewalk outside a luxury high-rise apartment, with first responders baffled at why there would be a cactus sticking out. Alas, today's amusement remains elusive.’

Why would engage in hope? Uninstall hope.exe from your brain. Stop wasting valuable resources on disordered behavior patterns. You weren’t born hoping. Someone tricked you into thinking it’s a good idea. By the way, hope is a primary leftist disorder.

Craving a disordered person’s suicide / gruesome death further reinforces what I’ve been saying all along. Look at all the mental gymnastics you engage in just to avoid talking to a counselor or therapist. Prove me wrong by getting screened. Show the professional these messages and perhaps your entire Patriots.win account (I haven’t read through it). If you don’t have any issues, then you’ll ask the therapist to screen you for all 10 personality disorders, and you’ll walk away confident & healthy.

Of course, refusing to seek help is one of the primary symptoms of your condition. You’ve typed a lot of vitriol, trying hard to disparage, blame, & discredit me, concluding with disappointment in the elusiveness of a handicapped person’s death.

Many things are elusive to you because of the disordered ways you’ve learned to survive. you are welcome for my having taking the time to talk to you. I’m giving you a lot of free insight because in order for our side to win, we must be confident & healthy. Take care of your health. If Patriots behaved confidently instead of insecurely on the 6th, Trump wouldn’t be in the deep shit he’s in today.

Cultivate your humility, self-awareness, and your control over your own compulsions and impulses. If you ever have a family or meet a woman worth marrying, they will appreciate your stability in a society filled with unstable humans.

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ToddHarsh -1 points ago +1 / -2

I recommend showing the above reply to your therapist. Instead of replying with sincere curiosity, you replied with instability, rage, & insult. I’m a licensed psychologist who spent his career on this subject. Take care of your health. Stop being unkind to yourself.

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ToddHarsh 1 point ago +2 / -1

Well, that's a very interesting reply. Thank you. I suppose it's possible to spend too much time and effort on empathizing. Most importantly - since you talk about locality - focus your empathy on yourself. Self-introspection, awareness, & understanding will lead to internal peace, happiness, and calmness despite what's going on in the external world.

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ToddHarsh 2 points ago +2 / -0

Every somewhat-smart-adult enlightens people. I don't claim to be special. I've put in a lot of time and been through a lot of torture and abuse to get where I am today. I am not perfect. The lesbian story does counter the message, but it was written to convey that I learned from my prior mistake. It's like there's a set of social laws of physics, and through trial and error in my real life (stand up comedy especially), I have stumbled upon some tried and true things.

With humility, I see now that a lot of my past negative reactions to negativity caused me harm. I was being self-righteous and didn't realize that my toxicity would be so hurtful.

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ToddHarsh 1 point ago +2 / -1

How can you operate empathetically to a fault? I'd like to hear your explanation.

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ToddHarsh 1 point ago +2 / -1

Schadenfreude is a key symptom of ASPD.

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ToddHarsh 0 points ago +1 / -1

The "condescending", "patrionizing" tone is both a story you made and irrelevant to the message. You're nitpicking my delivery instead of the message.

I shared the lesbian story to show how I'm a human too, and how I learned my previous mistakes to be a more positive person who reacts positively to negativity.

Your initial comment was negative because you intentionally concealed elaboration, resulting in me having to ask you for more details. If you were really sincere, you would have initially provided the above response with me needing to ask for it.

In the future, I suggest focusing on the forest and not the trees - the tonality is partly your own perceptions and partly my own fallibility as a writer. I'll consider what you said and try to do a better job in the future.

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ToddHarsh -2 points ago +1 / -3

"I know they don't change because I've read their material."

You're using anecdotal evidence to support an impossible claim. Humans are malleable and designed to be constantly adapting and changing depending on the environment. That you would actually try to convince me that humans are not malleable is, well, very limited thinking.

"I can't pretend to be happy about genocidal psychopaths who grow their power constantly because of the naivety of their opponents."

Then the joke is on you. Continue to enjoy responding negatively to negativity. Continue to enjoy putting yourself through unnecessary stress. The wise ones will continue to not let anything bother us. I always find it amusing when someone desperately tries to defend their instability and unhappiness.

"They expect"

Why do you concern yourself with such foolish people? Anyone who engages in "expectations" is a fool - be more mindful of who you focus on. Find confident people and follow their lead.

"What I meant is being nice to your oppressors will not save you."

Depends on the situation, but what's most important is being nice to yourself.

"There's no reason to try because they would gladly kill you if they had even the slightest chance of getting away with it."

You can be nice to someone while holding up your shield. They can't kill you if you have good self defense. If you're killable, then you failed at mastering martial arts and wisdom. Don't be a loser or a sucker.

"But when their ideology literally states to feign changing as a weapon..."

Real change cannot be feigned.

"I took it to the extreme position of never trusting a woman that I'm not related to"

What does women have to do with it? You shouldn't trust ANYONE. What are you talking about? The only people you might be able to trust are your parents. The dollar says to trust God, not people.

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ToddHarsh 0 points ago +1 / -1

ASPD - tell a therapist as soon as possible. Your life depends on it.

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ToddHarsh -2 points ago +2 / -4

Instead of replying with sincerity & decency, this insecure person chose to respond with vitriol & personal insult. Imagine what their real life is like. Talk to a therapist about ASPD.

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ToddHarsh 0 points ago +1 / -1

It's your choice. You can choose to remain calm and prioritize your health despite all of the trash. The key is to maintain your own stability & internal peace no matter what happens.

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ToddHarsh 1 point ago +2 / -1

"So, encourage the sociopaths to continue to destroy the country?"

No, never encourage anyone to do anything. Uninstall encouragement.exe.

You're misunderstanding what I'm saying. I'm not suggesting that you let anyone destroy anything. It's about attitude, cortisol levels, and your health. You just told me you're tired... well gee, I wonder why?

"Tired of playing nice and letting colored haired clowns control everything me and my family looks at."

No, you're tired from all of the stress and resources spent on thinking about negative things. When you're running optimally, you can handle utmost pressure & challenge with grace.

I would never recommend being so kind to trash that you let it pile up in your house. Don't make love to it. Just take it out. It's toxic to be around it, and it's especially toxic to hate it. See what I mean?

This is about your health - stay calm, continue running optimally with proper cortisol levels. By engaging in negative behavior & thinking, you take yourself out of optimal conditions, ruining your performance, leading to anxiety, tiredness, fatigue, resentment, apathy, and many other toxic things.

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ToddHarsh -3 points ago +2 / -5

Anger isn't necessarily attached to ridiculing the enemy, but the behavior itself is negative and qualifies as ASPD. The appropriate response to an enemy is utmost compassion & empathy, prioritizing your health & well-being above all else. Life is short, and resources are limited. By choosing to engage in ridiculing the behavior, you're essentially wasting your time and energy insulting a bag of trash. The healthier behavior is to simply take the trash out.

Imagine being so "nice" to trash that you don't throw it out, instead letting it pile up in your house. Maybe you decide to make love to it... bad move. Waste is toxic, so learn how to dispel of it without venom. Why is that so hard?

Ridiculing the enemy shoots yourself in the foot by sacrificing value time & energy that could be used for more productive behavior. If you were to list the 100 most worthwhile things to think about, you wouldn't list your enemies. You'd list your family, friends, interests, loves, passions, dreams...

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ToddHarsh -3 points ago +2 / -5

Anger isn't necessarily attached to ridiculing the enemy, but the behavior itself is negative and qualifies as ASPD. The appropriate response to an enemy is utmost compassion & empathy, prioritizing your health & well-being above all else. Life is short, and resources are limited. By choosing to engage in ridiculing the behavior, you're essentially wasting your time and energy insulting a bag of trash. The healthier behavior is to simply take the trash out.

Ridiculing the enemy shoots yourself in the foot by sacrificing value time & energy that could be used for more productive behavior. If you were to list the 100 most worthwhile things to think about, you wouldn't list your enemies. You'd list your family, friends, interests, loves, passions, dreams...

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