It's not a self own. Everyone is offended by something. The things that hurt some people's feelings are mocked while the things that hurts others are taken seriously. Why can't we just see that what is "offensive" is subjective and move on? Free speech exists for this reason.
Im ok with being selfish. I dont see altruism as an questionable good when it comes at the expense of other people. Demanding they care about you. Taking their money to send it to foreign lands. These things are not charity.
People can have opinions that don't line up with yours. This is where the left fucks up by always assuming dissent can only come with some ulterior motive. I know it's dumb but there are honest people who believe we'd be better off without weapons.
This says a lot about the sad sacks who think this is weird.