Definitely with you on the Cloudflare thing. I've been refusing to back their product in discussions at work for years now.
Boss: What about Cloudflare?
Evil Right-Wing Programmer: Nah, that product is totally overrated. Besides, our cloud provider already has an offering with much better integration.
Keep in mind the reason for those historic trends: people just KILL men who stand up, and men know it. Women tend to get off easy where consequences are concerned. There's a reason that what happened to Ashli Babbitt stunned so many people.