I have a co-worker who is hesitant (the only other one in the group). He straight out said he was going to wait awhile and other co-workers are pressuring him to do it. I just said I haven't done it yet, but haven't said if I planned to or not.
Sociopaths? That's a strong word although the thought has crossed my mind. I was thinking more along the lines of narcissist (in my situation at least).
I was having a phone conversation with my dad the other night and he brought it up numerous times. I'd change the subject and he'd bring it up again later and then bait me into an argument. They think it's a slap in the face to them if you don't get it and calling you selfish when they are controlling. I made the mistake of making further comments after it was brought up the third time and then I couldn't get a word in as I was being lectured.
I think part of it is they took it and have the same concerns but did it anyway, so want others to take it to feel better about their own decision.