I can completely attest to OPs statements. Coworker/friend of many years who I thought to be a moderate leftist was a long time casual debate buddy of mine. Only in 2020 did it start to get disturbing the way he would argue with me. I was homeschooled for most of my life and he began to start making claims that because of that I was brainwashed and indoctrinated and that I had no choice in my beliefs. The irony is that I held a strong debate game with him, always cited credible sources and used sound logic and all he could ever do is say was I lacked empathy or some leftist trash emotional appeals. I ended up cutting it off because he wouldn't stop initiating debates WITH ME and it was making him angry!?! He still wonders why he can't find a girl to settle down with him let alone date him for more than 3 months.
But in reality would FLOTUS be privy to top secret plans to combat insurrection and arrest deep state actors?